Have you ever felt like your life has been a repeat of the same old (ugly) situations over and over again? Everything is always familiar, a de ja vu perhaps?
In the spiritual sense they see it as God telling you that there are things in life you have not learned yet so the situation repeats until you get the message.
In the optimistic view, it is making you stronger and wiser as you get to familiarize the situation and develop exit strategies much better for every repeat.
In the pessimist world, it is your misfortune and you just have to deal with it. And you can just mourn over it too.
In the realist perspective, there is something wrong my friend, you need to do something about it.
If there were anyone in this world who has experienced the full spectrum of human emotions on being ignored, rejected, and/or abandoned by anyone important to them, it would probably be me.
I hate it when I start to feel like I’m the one who is doing the effort, when I am the one who looks desperate and seeking for attention.